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克制的温度 / The Temperature of Self-Control

Kisa Li
Aug 28
1 min read

永远不要用语言去伤害别人。

发怒的时候,不要做任何决定。


生气的时候,永远不要去想别人的缺点。

这三点看似简单,

可有多少人能做到?


虽说感情深厚,

可越深厚的感情越脆弱。



人与人相处不易,

每个人都有缺点。

别人能改变自己的不足,

也请你——

改变自己。



Never use words to hurt others.

When you’re angry, don’t make any decisions.


When you’re upset, never dwell on someone’s flaws.

These three things sound simple—

but how many can truly live by them?


Even the deepest bonds are fragile,

for the closer we are,

the more easily we bruise.


Human connection is never easy;

everyone has their flaws.

If others can work to change themselves,

then so should you.

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